A
bride is like a diamond well cut and polished it takes
your breath away, but leaves you cold in its uncut and rough
form. 'Clothes maketh a man' is an old saying but it still
holds true. For you to create a lasting impression on anybody
you need your clothes and your composure put together tastefully
and gracefully. Your wedding is a day that will be catalogued
in the minds of all present, but to make it memorable, you
need to choose your wedding dress and your look very carefully.
And then you can be sure that whenever you feel nostalgic
about your wedding, you can flip through those snaps or watch
the video without feeling embarrassed. Rather, you might find
that even your hubby remembers that day when you were at your
glorious best. So you have to make sure that you appear well
groomed and well turned out on the momentous day of your life.
So lets get cracking and begin with the dressing that will
make the salad more palatable.
The
Wedding Dress
First, the salad needs an elaborate dressing to entice people
to even take look, only then it can be put on the table for
display. The wedding dress is very similar to an elaborately
decorated salad or the icing on the cake. One slip and the
whole look can be destroyed. For this, you have to first decide
upon the look that you want to achieve. Along with that you
must focus upon the kind of wedding you are having. The latter
is to ensure the practicality of the clothes you choose. You
should try to coordinate your clothes according to the weather,
the type of rituals and customs to be performed, and the kind
of guests you will have for the function.
The
weather should play a very important role in the selection
of the color and material of your wedding dress as well as
your trousseau. If you are getting married in the summer,
the material should be light and made of natural fibers. This
will ensure that you are not melting from the heat because
of your clothes, when all you want is to appear cool and collected.
The colors should also match the season - lighter shades in
summer and darker ones in winter. A traditional and ritualistic
wedding requires clothes that are comfortable and relatively
wrinkle-free. You should select the design and the styles
in line with the type of wedding you are going to have. If
the wedding ceremonies are simple and relatively short, you
can go in for elaborate styles and the choice of material
is less restricted. But for a lengthy ceremony, if you choose
to wear a dress made of Organza or Taffeta, then you might
end up looking like a crumpled paper doll.
Your Trousseau
After the dressing comes the cutting of the cake. You have
to be totally prepared to live up to the expectations you
have built up, or you will ruin what you have worked so hard
to achieve on your wedding day. What good is the icing if
the cake itself is burnt?
So,
your trousseau should reflect the style and taste that you
are most comfortable with but still be pleasing to the eye
of the beholder. It is very important that you put together
your trousseau with a romantic as well as a practical point
of view. Your honeymoon and your lifestyle following that
should be given due thought in the selection of your clothes
and accessories.
You have to bear in mind the destination of your honeymoon,
the activities you will be indulging in - such as swimming,
partying, traveling, etc. when you are thinking of selecting
your trousseau. It is very important that you have clothes
befitting the climate you are going to spend your honeymoon
in.
If
you are going to the sandy beaches for your honeymoon, then
you must have a swimsuit with you, and the clothes that you
take along should also be light and cool. If the mountains
are your destination, then warm clothes must be included in
your trousseau. Again, if both of you are the adventurous
types, you might need clothes for those sudden trekking trips
you might take, or for those romantic moments you spend taking
a cruise around.
But
while you are planning for your honeymoon, you should also
keep in mind that there might be times when the two of you
might spend all your time inside. So definitely throw in a
sexy piece or two of delicate and enticing nightwear along
with the rest of your clothes.
You,
also, need to plan for the life ahead of you, following the
honeymoon. You must have a collection of formal wear and some
casual wear thrown together in your bags. But you need to
go about buying things with an eye on how you can mix and
match these clothes to give your wardrobe a greater variety
and individuality. When
you are buying a heavy and formal salwar suit, you can also
get a matching lighter or plain salwar-suit, and use the heavy
dupatta with the latter when you need to be dressed semi-formally.
Similarly, you can get very formal western wear and then add
a few matching casual-wear to them. Use your imagination and
combine the formal with the casual to get a chic outfit for
any occasion in a jiffy.
Your
accessories also demand some attention. But wait! Dont
just run wild buying matching shoes, bags, etc. for every
outfit you have selected or you might end up having a heap
of unused things taking up the much needed space and money.
Once again, coordinating your accessories in various ways
can accentuate your looks without costing much (well just
your grey cells!!).
Include bags and shoes that are in neutral shades and go along
with most of the colors in your wardrobe. Colors such as black,
tan, cherry, and cream generally fall under this category.
Now, you can add a transparent duffel bag or haversack and
transparent shoes to add some fun to your dress.
Lingerie
People always forget to include this very vital part clothing.
This is one area that requires as much care and attention
as the beauty regime you follow or the exercise routine you
have. The fall of your dress, the appearance if your figure
and what you feel inside, all depend on the lingerie you choose
to wear under your clothes. Hence it is extremely important
that we pay special attention to our lingerie.
A
good fitting undergarment ensures that you are comfortable
and hence do not have to keep fidgeting with either your Bra
straps, or your panty line. Next, you must choose the Bra
according to your vital statistics as well as the type of
clothes you will be wearing. If you are slightly built and
you appear to be flat chested, do choose a padded bra, but
if you are heavily built, select a bra with an under-wire
for support. This will give your bust line a much-needed boost.
You
also need the nightwear, which should be comfortable and pleasant
to the eye, with respect to your figure and the season you
are going to wear it in. Lingerie is supposed to be one of
the potent aphrodisiacs and hence, you should make good use
of it.
Coming
down to the type of clothes you wear and the choice of undergarments
to go with them, you need to take stalk of the clothes you
have lined up for your wedding and the trousseau. Your lingerie
should include the three basic colors of black, white and
skin. But if you are the adventurous type, you can go in for
matching sets of lingerie, available off the shelf.
The
choice of color is important because if the color of the innerwear
is in contrast to that of the dress, then the undergarment
draws more attention and lessens the impact of your clothes.
The cut of your neckline and the style will require you to
select a bra with a similar cut. So, now you can see how important
it is to select the lingerie correctly.